"[Instant] Sexual Attraction"
     by SIN ^(TM)

Book Reviews

Thorny - Pickup Artist

December 4, 2008 by RAPID:

Hey Guys,

Read SIN's ebook lately and listened to the "Off The Pages" MP3s that are intended to accompany it and I must say ... WOW ... Clear and simple, I recommend it to EVERYONE ... Be it your new to the game or a veteran.

ALOT of the insights and techniques contained within the ebook were absolutely mindblowing for me personally ... Specifically the "Attraction Tease" AND "Multiple Hits Theory" since these were things I do naturally and having since read the book, I can now not only distinctly identify what I am doing, but also how to take it to levels I didn't think it could actually go through a little calibration and understanding.

SO if you have a very creative and not so methodical type mind, then I suggest reading 'Instant Sexual Attraction' which provides alot of natural and flexible theories and routines.

People who are into Mystery Method (analytical/methodical minds) can get some cool routines from the book.

And it's worth it even to just read the tales and escapades of SIN, Mystery and Style back in the time/days from when "THE GAME" was written ... Since the stories/examples used in the book come from the real lives of the 3 of them.

SO yeah. If you want to learn some advanced techniques then you will find some mind-blowing insights and perpectives.

If you want to read a good story and see pictures of all the famous PUAs ... then its good for that too ...

OR if you are even starting out ... This will give you a good set of foundations to build up your game.

Rapid
Melbourne, Australia

October 10, 2008 by Legend:

   Some of you may not know who I am talking about, but this is the original SIN, Mystery's wing man and Style's original teacher. He is back and his book is awesome. If that doesn't get you excited, nothing will. You may have noticed that I don't usually endorse products and that's because a lot of them are just rehashed and the same old, same old. This is different.

   After being in the community for a long time, it is not often that you find a product that has more than one tiny, useful nugget of information in it. This book is filled with useful content and to my surprise it has completely new insights that no one else in the community has ever talked about before.

   The book is separated into two sections: a great story line and then a following section of detailed techniques. The story section of the book is an entertaining bit of PUA history. Think "The Game" from SIN's perspective combined with tons of real world theory. The best part about it is the mix of a story that will keep you entertained and then the game theory, which is clearly separated out into different sections for your repeated reading pleasure.

   If you are an avid PUA history junkie the story part is for you. If not, keep reading.

   When you get into the theory and technique (the black pages of the book), it really starts to shine. SIN's Mirror Theory is spot on. The section about the Intent Mirror, Reaction Mirror, Empathy Mirror, and Action Mirror is amazing. I think it's an extremely important part of underlying communication and no one in the PUA industry has ever talked about it before. It seems to me that this is the secret of why some people have success with routines and other people fall flat on their face when using them. If you have ever had this problem, I highly recommend you check out this book. SIN really delves into how the brain works and how other people perceive communication.

   Later, SIN talks a lot about sexual guilt and how he thinks it's holding people back from going after what they want. This is another great example - I can see how in our society where a man's sexuality and need for sex is almost demonized in today's culture (at least in the USA). It's a very deep-rooted problem for some people and I think SIN really gets a large chunk of it handled. He puts you in the right direction to solving this problem. Once you eliminate the sexual guilt, then you are free to go after any woman unapologetically. There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who goes after exactly what he wants in life.

   My favorite and one of the most enlightening sections of the book is SIN's Multiple Hits Routine. Don't let the name fool you; it’s not another line, instead it's more of a new style of opening. Many people in the community think that you need one perfect approach. Start to finish, a straight line type of game. SIN's basis to his game is completely different. Why struggle walking a tight rope act where you can fall off? Instead why not fractionate your interactions with people allowing much more breathing room. I think this is the shining hallmark of SIN's techniques. He goes into great depth explaining why and how to use multiple hits in a way that will get you in way, way under the radar, if necessary. If you thought opinion indirect game was under the radar, you should try this out. Another great part about the Multiple Hits Routine is that you can go completely direct using it and still pull it off. I can't wait to integrate this into my game, as MHR can really work with any style of game. Who says you only need to play game in a linear fashion. This is the future.

   Another part of the book that has got me excited is the sexual attraction theme of the book. A great section is SIN's sexual teasing which is a great basis for framing an interaction. Framing everything sexual, he talks at length about it giving many examples in the form of sexual teasing. Basically framing that she is doing things that stir up deep sexual urges inside of you and it's all her fault. SIN explains exactly how to do this in a fun playful way. This part strikes a chord with me. If you get sexual by teasing a girl and get it going on right away there is really only two places the interaction could end up. Her bed or your bed.

   SIN also goes into detail about what women want and how they act in the social scene. His Tangled Web Theory is spot on. Women are screening you and setting traps for you. My friend Alexandra always tells me she gets all dolled up even to go to the pharmacy because she never knows who she might run in to. Apply that to all women and we know they want to be approached. SIN hits the nail on the head talking about female psychology in this regard and how to give women what they want. He gives a great base to build a strong comfort game.

   Most importantly SIN goes into a section about Pre-Sex and After Sex Game. This is a strong point that I highly recommend. Where most books focus on the initial pickup leading to a number or to sex, SIN continues right on talking about the second meet up (Day Two). He gives advice how to keep the girl after sex based on goals and passions which is what life is really all about. This is something that really impressed me since most books leave this part completely out. He talks about having a 5 year plan. You don't need to be there yet, but you need to have ambition and goals. This will get you the girl.

   All in all, I found the book to be a great read. It's packed with amazing tips and techniques that are really new to the community. I respect SIN’s writing, he is one of the few stand up guys in the community who actually has talent. I think you should pick up a copy of this book and read it cover to cover. Then go back and apply some of his teachings that fit with your style. The whole sexual frame is a great frame to stick to and I think many PUAs avoid it. Embrace it and the women will love you. Women always say we should stop playing games, so I say why not stop and just be blunt with them but in a tactful way. I know I need to integrate more of this into my game to really speed up my results.

Legend
http://pickupevolution.com

October 8, 2008 by Adonis:

   SIN is an enigma…quite possibly the last real enigmas in “the game”. The tales of his exploits and legendary status seem almost mythical now in retrospect. I must be honest, I have been in this little community of ours for about as long as it has been around and even I have heard stories circulated that there never really was a guy named “SIN” that used to wing with Mystery. Rumors abounded that SIN was one of Neil Strauss’ many uses of creative licenses employed while writing “The Game“. After years of silence from the guy, I assumed these rumors to be true. So when SIN returned with "[Instant] Sexual Attraction" it was almost like finding out that Santa Claus, was in fact (after so many years of disbelief), REAL! And lucky for us too…Like Santa Claus, SIN comes bearing gifts! (Word of warning to all the “naughty girls” on Santa’s List: Watch Out)!

   I have been given the opportunity to preview "Instant Sexual Attraction" and can I say that it's awesome on multiple levels. Just about everyone reading this review (I assume) has read “The Game” by Neil Strauss, which is pretty much the standard for what happened in the community several years back. There are always multiple sides to any story, and so it's quite refreshing to hear another perspective on the events that occurred during this dramatic time in the community … especially if it's coming from a guy who can recount events that precede the events in “The Game”.

   But "Instant Sexual Attraction" is not only a narrative; it also delivers some of the best instruction available. It’s strange how many of the tactics discussed in "Instant Sexual Attraction" have rarely been mentioned in the myriad volumes of pick up literature.

   One of the key realizations I received from watching Tyler Durden in the Blueprint Decoded is the Maxim: “The self is always coming through”. What a profound and true statement he makes. This means that you can use the best openers, routines, and other material, but none of that will matter because the real “you” is being constantly broadcasted to the world. Though profound, it left me thinking, “Ok, well ... how do I fix all these channels!??” Enter SIN with the answer: Mirror Theory!

   Mirror Theory describes the 4 different channels we are continually broadcasting and reflecting upon the world: 1) The Action Mirror; 2) The Reaction Mirror; 3) The Intent Mirror; and 4) The Empathy Mirror. If you can align all of these mirrors you will (as the title of the book alludes) instantly attract women because you will be moving through the world with integrity, intent, and poise. SIN gives exercises to align them all so when the “self comes through”, it’s the most attractive self possible.

   Want a different style of opening? Tired of the ongoing debate of whether to open direct or indirect? "Instant Sexual Attraction" shows a new way of opening that I have been using with amazing results lately. It’s called The Multiple Hits Routine, and it will permanently change the way you view opening.

   One of the stronger aspects of my game is my ability to turn things sexual really fast ... but to make her think it was all her idea and that I’m the innocent one in the interaction ... this is genius! Want to know how to do this? SIN’s Attraction Tease is one of the best explanations that has opened my eyes to ways that I can make things sexual even quicker using this simple framework. Use it and I guarantee you will be escalating things quicker than you ever have.

   I could go on and on about the the multitude of great tactics in this book but I think you’re definitely better off reading "Instant Sexual Attraction" and discovering them for yourself. You will find yourself seeing Pick Up in a completely new and fresh light.

   If there was one thing I would change in this book (and I brought this up to SIN) is that it almost seems like he is riding on Mystery and Style’s coattails too much when he is obviously an expert on seduction in his own right. Although, I do think it’s great for any emerging expert to establish credibility, I think this volume speaks for itself without needing to borrow credibility from obviously established seduction experts.

   Bottom line: Read SIN’s "Instant Sexual Attraction" if you want an entertaining ride through the life and times of a master seducer and pickup artist in the often times dramatic and chaotic pickup community subculture. Read "Instant Sexual Attraction" because you want another perspective on the events detailed in “The Game”. Read this book for the candid pics of Mystery, Style, and (on occasion) Sin himself. Read "Instant Sexual Attraction" because you want to have (as the title alludes) instant sexual attraction with women for yourself. Whatever other reason you can manufacture: Just read it!

Adonis
http://charmingrogue.com

October 5, 2008 by Lockett:

   SIN,

   I am one of the original buyers of your eBook and think it is just awesome. Here's a quick update on where I am in my game so you know where my review is coming from: I am 21 years old and living near Toronto, Ontario. At present, my first relationship ever seems to be coming to an end after five long months, and I find I am suffering from Approach Anxiety (AA) again. Now opening a set is a big deal for me.

   Okay, so now you know where I stand in this game, so here's a quick review of your book:

   First, I found your book really exciting to read. I really enjoyed each story you had on Mystery from the early days such as when you first met him, and I particularly enjoyed the insane story of Mystery "opening a 20-set" the night you guys had the contest to see who was better. Also, it was cool to read your perspective on the first historic workshop at the Hollywood Roosevelt Hotel, especially after reading about Style's experience at that workshop in "The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society Of Pickup Artists". One other chapter that made perfect sense to me -- while I had never heard anything like it before was your Social Pyramid Theory chapter, which really helped to lay out the foundation of how social interaction works and how social circles are created.

   Now for the Pickup Techniques that are in your book. SIN, the Multiple Hits Routine (MHR) and Attraction Tease are absolutely diabolical. I have not been able to use them too much yet, but now that I'll be sarging more, I hope to be able to put these things into practice, and use them to punch through my AA. I also love how you have the two examples of how you used the MHR at the first historic workshop.

   Overall, I think your book is amazing. I read chapters from it frequently and cannot wait to read the next version of it and listen to your SIN IS BACK "Off The Pages" audio CDs.

P.S. I have also listened to your interview with Stylelife Academy countless times. Now I am trying out some of the meditation practices you speak of in that interview.

Best Wishes, SIN,

Lockett
Mississauga, Ontario

September 26, 2008 by Twice:
" Not a method but a WAY!"

   First of all, I want to thank you SIN for this eBook. It's awesome! I've read it in only 4 days ... and WOW I really liked it ~ as it's not simply a new or old method to do ~ it's a way! It's about having the "right frame" and some awesome tricks too.

   I've found the Mirror Theory very useful. I'd read about something similar to it in "Social Intelligence" by Goleman, but you have gone much deeper about the interactions between men and women. After reading it, everything made sense!

   My goal is to use your Multiple Hits Routine (which I found I did naturally), but I was missing the logic behind it. Tomorrow I plan to do it all night long.

   I'm now doing your Attraction Tease and I feel very comfortable doing it! And i love it! I think it might take me a bit longer to get used to doing it always/naturally, but I think it'll be worth it!!

   Those are just some of the more important parts of the book that caught my attention while reading it. Then there is all of the history about you, Mystery, and Style .... everything is like "The Game, Director's Cut" ... awesome!!

Thank you again SIN for taking the time to write this book. I look forward to talking to you on your forum and maybe one day personally ...

Cya,

Twice
Bologna, Italy

August 9, 2008 by Just Do:

   Hi SIN. Thank you for writing this fantastic book or should I say, thank you for a fantastic part of your mind. For me, it's not a book, it's about a person's life that is helping me to have a higher understanding. For me, I love to be around women, but unfortunately I had so many other people around me that wanted to suppress me. I was scorned upon many times; this woman is no good for you; you can't go out with her; God will punish you; you mustn't think like that--it's disgusting ... all the time!!! I had this rammed down my throat day-in and day-out. Many people seem to suffer from Sex Guilt (SG). From reading your one chapter "Sex On The Brain" in your book about SG -- has helped to smash all those chains around my neck. Every time after making out with a woman I would go into SG. I used to feel so unclean ... and that's not due to a lack of washing!! No more SG after having my fun for me!

   Also, your explanation of the attraction tease is absolutely vital because it allowed me to finally understand exactly what's going on during flirting. In fact, all of your explanations (on your subjects) are a vital part of this fantastic book, because some books fall into the trap of not giving enough examples, or not explaining concepts clearly enough, or not actually showing "how to do the activities." However, you also manage to keep it simple so that people can understand what you're explaining (extremely important) ... too many books get tangled up with technical words and then the book just becomes completely frustrating. Your small bite sizes of information gradually build up to help the reader learn/understand your many different strategies. Example, example, example -- it's what I like about your book (fully illustrating how your routines and techniques should be done).

   I've actually put Chapter 10: SIN's Attraction Tease it into action, and had some fantastic results. I've ended up at the end of my math lesson, sitting at the back of the classroom; now finding myself surrounded by absolutely gorgeous women. I'm talking about four supermodels (ages 21, 25, 23, 18), and another one that wants to dump her boyfriend (she is %$#% hot), but she has asked me, “What am I doing over the weekend?" Then she gave me her phone number and said, "Don’t let my boyfriend find out!”) Ha! Her boyfriend is in the same class!

   I used The Rook (one of two types of SIN's Attraction Tease) on two HBs (one 35 and one 34 years old), and then I told them both "You best watch out because I am going to seduce you both. You don’t mind being seduced do you?" They laughed out loud! Then I chatted up the 35 year old woman and she loved it! I used playful banter just as you describe, turning everything around sexually as if it was her thinking it instead of me. Now she wants to meet me down the pub for a drink. I thought this was just a bonus. But just at that point, I got to chatting it up with the very attractive 34 year old and bonus ball number two comes rolling in. Now she wants to meet me at the pub too!! Two birds with one stone!

   SIN the book is awesome I love it, but hated the black background on the technology pages. So I’m happy that you have made it more printer friendly, because just as I was printing my machine broke! EEK! I couldn’t print the whole book. Thank you for all your hard work. God gave you a gift. I'm out tonight to try some more of your stuff!

   P.S. You can offer me $200 to buy the eBook back, and the answer will be NO.

Just Do
City of Kent, United Kingdom

August 5, 2008 by Miguel:

   Hi SIN, I can't tell you how inspired, moved, deeply re-wired I am getting from reading your book! You book has a "living transmission" to it. I also heard the 3 hour style-life interview and it's simply AMAZING. It is like the universe gave me a gift when I heard the interview and now reading your e-book.

   I am a well-known meditation teacher / therapist in Europe, so hearing about your depth of involvement in Zen and Taoism and personal development instantly made a connection for me. I've worked at MIT, had my own leadership training company in San Francisco, have deeply explored Tibetan Buddhism and personal development, and then in May 2008 I read: "The Game". The LIGHT WAS TURNED ON INSIDE! I am now living in Copenhagen, Denmark. I have signed up for a 3 month intensive program with a PUA here in Copenhagen (I have just finished my first month). Everyday I am improving but the style of the person I am learning with is quite different from what I am aiming for. I feel MUCH more connected with your style and what you're writing.

   I read / study / practice pick-up 12-14 hours each day. I have tremendous discipline derived from intensive dharma practice, teaching, and academia. But I would like to find a role model that I am more aligned with. This is why I would love if you would consider coming to Copenhagen or somewhere in Europe where I could take your seminars.

   Anyway, I am half-way through your book. I can't put it down. And it is ABSOLUTE GOLD compared to much of the other stuff I have read or heard. Without a doubt your book is in the TOP 3 NECESSARY books to read about dating.

   One person says project a "friendly vibe" always. Another person says project a "social vibe" or be a "social guy". You are the first to really make me feel / understand / experience the important necessity of being in a sexual state when meeting woman and having that sexual state ooze from my pores! I wish I lived in L.A. and I could learn more closely with you.

   Thank you again. I look forward to hearing about your seminars and any other products you produce in the near future.

Miguel
Copenhagen, Denmark